I am writing this to help many who have asked and because I know that many men need to understand far more about what it takes to be successful in dating a trans person. We are so frequently misunderstood and if you can develop enough understanding - relationships with gals like "me" can be THE most rewarding relationships of all. Guys who understand me have claimed too have had the most rewarding times with me and that is not "just" sexually. There are basics and if you understand them you will become a very happy guy and a wonderful "partner" in most rewarding ways.
Most importantly is - we want to be treated as "normally" as possible. Normal in our world is ultra-feminine and getting "ultra-feminine" treatment from our date!
Feminine!
I can tell almost immediately about a man's level of kindness and how he relates to a feminine person. Acceptance is very important and if a guy seems to have any level of doubt about being with you - forget about the man and the possibilities. I know many trangendered girls who were beaten or hurt by men who could not accept the blurred lines of human sexuality. Homophobia is THE WORST characteristic of a man in my humble opinion. Why men cannot find peace in their own sexuality and manhood is sad and unfortunate. I feel very bad for these people. I believe they have feelings about men or trans-woman and are afraid of who they really may be. There is nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, homosexuality or straight sexuality. It is sad that the world has to focus on differences rather than on simply people loving people! So much for a little venting.......
I love to dress to "please" whether in public or in the privacy of my bedroom. One of my "lovers" over the years bought me all kinds of sensual wear that we would pick out together. Sometimes I would still wear things for him that were not favorites as long as it pleased him. I delight in being flexible for a man and I delight when a man does so for me! Whenever I wear this outfit (right photo) for "him" he gets harder than a rock, yet I could take or leave this bra and panty set. The reward is as clear as the HUGE bulge in his under shorts for both of us! It is not about sex in the beginning in a relationship as both the guy and the gal need to be sure that each is on the same emotional and sexual / spiritual wave length.
How do you approach a trans-gal? It is much easier than you think! We love flattery and accept flattery better than "real girls". Compliment how pretty a girl is and her dress. Compliment how sexy her high heels and stockings are. Offer to buy "her" a drink. I find trans gals are much more open to this as well. "Old Fasion" appreciativeness and treating people like gold goes a long way with a T-Girl! The internet works when you write something complimentary and thoughtful - NOT when you write ridiculousness like "I want to cum deep in your sexy sweet ass!" Any reference to unsafe sex and it is over LONG BEFORE anything begins!
