For The "Girls"! By Cari Christi

The "art" of transvestism / crossdressing / female illusion is a pretty sophisticated one! I say that because I have known VERY few guys who can transform themself into a passable image of a woman with any sense of ease. I am not a natural at all - and I want to share with you  a few ideas / tips that may help you in your "feline endeavors". The pictures on the left illustrate what I think are the two extremes of why we dress. The first - top left is illustative of that wondrous - relaxed feeling - "blissful" from "being dressed" as a female. I love shaving my skin smooth, soft silk, feminine garments and all those things female.... For some the "art" has even greater and / or more extreme meaning and rationale. For me (sometimes) it is "almost" like the bottom left photo - being sexy and dressed to seduce - which can lead to "really" being feminine - as a woman in the arms of a man - or more! Crossdressing doesn't have to be either for some people - sometimes it is just the comfort of wearing panties beneath clothing or even the feel of certain items that are symbolic in our somewhat different though process. You are not alone - don't forget that there are millions of crossdressers, transvestites, and T-Girls worlwide! I am not completely typical either - "viva la difference" is what the French say!

Dressing enables me to go "out" as a woman and as a date or with friends. I love to "pass" even in the bedroom (Right Photo Above)

Sometimes I dress with this kind of intent!!!

It is hard to look at yourself in the miror and be completely objective about how you may look as a "girl". Many of us have to accept that we neven may "pass" in public - unless we go to great extremes to do so. I belive if you WANT hard enough - you can do most anything. I have always wanted to look good as a T-Girl (crossdresser, transvestite, girl-boy, - whatever - YOU may want to call me -) T is the essence though - transgender - can be so fascinating and so much fun... So you are 6' 1" tall and 220 lbs. and you want to be a "girl". Good luck - you are going to look like a linebacker in a dress! Sorry for the honesty but that is reality in our society. "Societal Norms" are what we are challenging - but the norms are what we need to USE to be successful. Now if you lost some serious weight and were 6' 1" and 170 lbs. - now that's a different story. If you are height and weight appropriate - I believe almost anyone has a chance to be passable! I always tell people about a well known 6'5" T-Girl in Montreal who passes all the time! She is stunning because she is slim, incredibly skilled and practiced, and believes that "she" is female when she is dressed. Her height gets her positive attention as well! I've hit you with the most important issue of all - right from the start - because it is something that we can and can't control. Height - we can't control - weight and fitness - we can control. For me and for every crossdresser I know - it is the true key to the "start" of being believable and passable as a woman. Now that your 5'9" and have lost all that weight and you wiegh in at 160 - You can be my "sister"! I am VERY lucky in the height department - I'm 5'5" inches tall. A "curse" in sports - but a blessing in dressing! If you are "fit" enough in appearance - there is hope for you to become fem! I have been as low as 128 lbs. - and at that weight I am very stunningly believable!

As I have progressed - I also look back to realize the sacrifices that I made when I was young and "determined" to explore my female feelings and emotions. I was never a classic "femmy" guy. I actually was much the opposite - I was a four sport athlete in High School and even a co-captain of the football team at 5'5" 150 lbs. at the time. I was tough, fast, and reasonably muscular - yet subtle changes enabled me to grow into my alter ego. I was able to do this without any physical changes to myself other than losing some weight and by always staying physically fit. I love scenes like the one at the left - At first - when I first began dressing - I never ever envisoned myself as a "girl" who would do such naughty things - because I always dressed - in the beginning - because of how wondrous it felt. My goal when I was young was simply to go out in public as a girl - why I'm not sure - but later at least some of my desire to do so made more sense - I'll tell you more about my dressing secrets, experiences, and hints!

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